warning: only deep thinkers try to read it. The post is Not for all.
Do u believe in the love?
love means love for Ur boyfriendf or girlfriend or life partner. Most of the times, people initially feel that this is only person in the world who is made for them. They feel every kind of attraction for that person. Mental, emotional , intellectual, spiritual, physical. People also describe it as the companionship of many lives. We are made for each other.
I really appreciate that.
But as always my mind asks some basic questions.
For few seconds imagine that the person was not at all in existence, does it means that u would be all alone for whole life?
And you would not have felt attracted towards some other person? And feel the same? That he/she is the person made for you??
what if that person would not have existed, does it mean you would not have fall in love at all? With anyone else??
I think it’s impossible.
If he/she would not have existed at all or you would not have met him at all in your life, still you would have got someone else. That’s what my practical mind says.
So one question remains is why everyone feels that he is with the person who is made for him/her? Or why everyone keeps finding such person who is made for him/her?
I would say , it’s a pure illusion or the slavery.
We feel that we are the masters of our life and we choose the person we want in our life. But infact our this thought itself is a projection of the slavery.
It’s difficult to explain but still I will try at my best.
So understand the below points.
Have you seen the matrix movie? Where machines are using humans as their battery. But for that they create the illusionary world “matrix”. So in reality every person is sleeping and became a battery for the machines and he is living the illusionary world “matrix” in his mind as a daily life. All people are connected to that world. This dream life has been given by machines to these people. He never wakes up.
So machine has humans as slave to give them energy and they give humans the illusionary world, where people feel they are living the life of their own choice.
Now you will ask what is the relevance of this with love life?
Just replace the machines with nature.
Nature who always likes to be exist. Persist. Nature never cares about anything . For the persistence and existence reproduction is very important. Even sometimes destruction is also important. And nature acts on it.
So basically the feeling of love or attraction us there because of not what we feel it but it is because of what nature wants us to feel.
I am not saying that the love is not right feeling but I am saying the cause of such kind of love or attraction what human experiences for one particular person is delusional.
As I said above, if the oppoaite person does not exists still human will feel the same kind of love and attraction for someone else. He will find someone to live with. So it is not about the particular person practically. Even though we feel that it is for that one person only.
That is why there are so many attractions for the males and females. It is totally natural. Even though lovers living together, they also get attracted towards other people.
Maya in Indian mythology or Indian scriptures is not different than this. Everyone is under the illusion of Maya. That is why we do what she wants to get from us. So in this case nature is nothing but the Maya. Because nature wants to exist and persist, that is why the nature has given us the feeling to feel that attraction of opposite sex and we gave it the name as love.
But we are fools who dont understand that even if the person we are loving would not have existed, we would be loving someone else.
But we don’t even feel that our love is not originated within ourselves. It has been planted in us. The idea to feel those emotions of feeling closeness , being attracted are planted in us by nature. Nature doesnt care whether you are going to have sex with mutual understandings or by love and emotions or by force. Nature tells us just to have sex. Because he wants to reproduce either this way or that.
so it’s just about how we r under the illusion of nature.
it’s exactly like movie matrix.
we fools, think that I am in love. but we don’t understand that the feel of falling in love is the trick of nature. Nature uses us so amazingly that we even don’t understand that it’s not our own wish.
The beautiful brutal truth our feeling of love is the result of what someone else wants.
That is what Maya is. where we don’t realise itself that we r the slaves. we feel that we are doing everything as master. In reality we are completing the wish of nature.
That is why in Indian scriptures getting out of the attraction from the opposite sex is one of the step of getting free from the Maya. Everything around is Maya no doubt. but opposite sex attraction or sexual attraction is one of the biggest loop of Maya.
We can go into much more detail of this if we bring the one more factor called as Karma. It will be more complicated.
Because people will ask so many saints and enlightened people were married and had children. But one big difference is there that , for those people physical attraction and love is not the concern. They do it without keeping any expectations. They do it neutrally. They do it because there are some past karmas pending. So they have to go through all this things. they are totally neutral about this things while doing. so intentions and approach of those people is very different than us.
It’s like the difference in between drinking the alcohol as habit and drinking the alcohol as a medicine.
I guess I have made it complicated as I could. But I hope if someone deeply think about it he/she will understand the meaning what I want to say.
the final words I would say that we are the slaves of the nature. That’s why we feel the emotions like live for opposite sex mainly. Very few people can even understand it or realise such kind of slavery. And fewer of them will try to get rid of it. To become the true master. To become enlightened. Then nature won’t be their master.nature won’t be able to make them slaves. They would use nature as per their wish. Like a true master.
The lone wolf.